My Gap Year: Why it was the right choice for me.

As I’ve just begun my second gap year, I thought I’d share my thoughts on this ever magical but elusive concept. Although I’ve never taken a “true” gap year, because I’ve continued my studies through online courses towards my degree. But these courses have been minimal credits to maintain a fairly flexible schedule (and good grades). Even now, I am procrastinating my assignments because travel blogs don’t write themselves. 😉

 

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I remember wanting a gap year even before I understood what that was. Inspired by friends’ vacations and volunteer trips abroad, I began my search for the ultimate experience. Near the end of my freshman year of university, I considered serving a mission for my church (www.lds.org). Ultimately, I decided that it wasn’t for me.

Up to that point, I had been a huge advocate of a 5 year plan. I had my LIFE planned. But suddenly, I couldn’t take the next step. With society’s ever piercing opinions gazing down on me, I cracked. Or rather, my 5 year plan cracked. But I firmly believe that I was guided. Just a few months later, I went to an info meeting for International Language Programs and was HOOKED. As in, I signed up with less than 2 months until departure; to RUSSIA of all places. Desperate times call for desperate measures, right? #millenniallifechoices

 

Moving on. Why was Russia the right choice for me?

It gave me time to think.

It gave me time to grow.

It gave me time to discover myself.

And I know that sounds cheesy. But I don’t know how else to describe it. Before Russia, I was a such people pleaser. I would get caught up with what I should wear, say, or act – just to get people to like me! Oh Paul. What were you thinking. I’d like to attribute it to high school not wearing off after graduation, but honestly I just didn’t have confidence in myself. While living in Russia, I had experiences in which I was successful. Yes, the children were rambunctious when I taught. Yes, learning Russian was hard. Yes, I got lost multiple times. BUT, I slowly gained confidence. And with that confidence, I became my own #1 Fan. Sorry Mom, you’ve got some steep competition. 😉

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Not only did I become happier, but I became more focused on what I wanted to accomplish in life. I was able to reevaluate how I could achieve my personal, educational, and career goals. For those who are a tad skeptical, obtaining a university degree is indeed of one my goals. I’m just taking the (extremely) scenic route. 🙂

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Another benefit from my gap year came in the form of friendship. I cherish my memories and those I made them with. I miss my Russian children and my co teachers all the time! You really learn how to forge a friendship based on the simplest of common ground. I learned what kind of people I want to surround myself with. Believe it or not, you don’t have to settle for less. Your spirit animal / twin / “brotha (sista) from anotha motha” is OUT THERE. Find them. Travel with them. Discover this world! Solo travel has its pros, but I’ve found joy in sharing.

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To wrap this up, I just want to encourage everyone to consider a gap year. There’s no shame in taking a step back to see where you want to go. I wasn’t ready to go back to school. I’m still not. Will I ever be? #tobecontinued

 

But really. I am beyond blessed to have my job in France. I’m trying to absorb all the culture and language before heading back to Rexburg next fall. Although I will be sad to leave France, I won’t be too disappointed I’m replacing it with Idaho. Because now I know that I love to travel. University is my stepping stone. Once I’m finished with my degree, look out world! There’s going to be one more passionate (borderline obsessed) travel blogger on the road. Whether it’s by plane, canoe, rickshaw, or double-decker bus, I will see this world. My gap year is just the beginning.

 

Wondering how I afford to travel?

I’ve compiled some of my tips into a fresh batch of ideas to kickstart your travel fund!

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