Whenever you step foot into a new country, you’re presented with two options. One, visit the country as a tourist. Or two, arrive as a traveler.
In my opinion, there is no right or wrong answer.
I recently traveled to the Bahamas, where I was most definitely a tourist. But I’ve had the opportunity to experience many cities as a traveler; and I’ve found that those experiences have left me feeling more fulfilled. Here’s how I see it: A tourist doesn’t act, they are acted upon. A tourist passes through a city, whereas a traveler engages with it. A tourist sticks to the “top 10 list,” and the traveler opens their heart to the spontaneity of allowing the city to share its secrets with you. While I’m not a perfect traveler, I do have these 5 tips for your next trip on how to be a traveler, not a tourist.
#1Learn basic phrases
I feel uncomfortable when I arrive in a city and I don’t speak the language. There’s the stereotype that Americans only speak English and I try to battle that stereotype one destination at a time. Locals typically appreciate the effort and just a few words might help you make a new friend! Don’t strain yourself though, focus on getting down the basics: Hello / Good morning, Goodbye, Please, Thank you, Do you speak English? (You get the idea)
#2Go off the beaten path
Try a day trip! Getting away from the hustle and bustle of the tourist centers will allow you to dive head-first into the local culture. If you’re not sure where to begin, Google some options or reach out to a friend or blogger who has been there before. Nothing has a heavier weight in my travel selections than a friend’s recommendation. I even booked a whole trip along the Dalmatian Coast (see video here) based on positive feedback from my friend Gloria over at The Blog Abroad.
#3Take a local class
Try tango in Argentina, learn how to play a didgeridoo in Australia, or bake crème brûlée with a French chef. It’ll either be a success or a good laugh. Either way, you won’t regret it!
Along those same lines, try taking a walking tour. I did a walking food tour in Montréal and it was a fantastic kick start to my weekend.
#4Enjoy a more authentic stay with Airbnb
Airbnb is a online service that allows you stay in local’s homes instead of opting for a hotel. You can choose between a shared room, a private room or an entire home. You get to truly see a different side of the city! As they say, “when in Rome, do as the Romans do!”
The picture below was from a penthouse I stayed in with locals in Cannes, France. I’ve also been able to share spaces in Croatia, Canada, the US, France, and Montenegro. In my experience, the quality of the experience (bed quality, location, etc) are often better than a hotel.
#5Have a purpose!!
As is the case with many Americans, I have a complex ancestry. In October 2018, I went to Montréal to trace the steps of my great-grandparents. Not only did I get a feel for the city, but now when I return I can branch out to the areas where my ancestors lived before immigrating to the United States.
Well friends, there you have it! Like I said, I’m far from perfect. If you have your own tips, please add them in the comments below! I can’t wait to see what suggestions you have. 🙂
Until next time,
– Paul